Let them get amused by who you are.

We all have this desire, to have someone in our lives, who goes "wow", when they look at us.
As days pass by, you feel more comfortable in your own skin, realising looks weren't ever a subject of judgement. How you dress was never really what made people like or dislike you. What you ride and where you live was never anything any one ever cared about. You realise, no one can ever be loved on the basis of how beautiful they naturally, externally are. It's really about that effort they took to become someone, internally.
So when someone goes "wow", when they look at you. It's temporary. And you know it.
Let it come out, when you speak. When you tell them what you dream of, what inspires you, which vacation you can't forget and why, your spirit animal, the most annoying things that piss you off, or that habit that you say you don't have but you know the truth.
That's when you know it's not so temporary. When they get amused by what you are, not how you look.

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